Monday, November 3, 2014

The Giving Garden


About six months ago my husband and I moved from an apartment in a historic part of the city to Parma, an ethnically dense town with working families. We live close to church, hoping to be a gospel light to Ukrainians, a people held captive by religious tradition, with no concept of salvation by the cross of Christ. 

Just the other day our family was on a walk. We had gotten root beer from the fruit market, and were pushing the stroller home when Bogdan greeted some neighbors we had never seen before.
Dobriy Den he called out to an older couple. They approached us and we spoke over the fence.
Their faces were worn by the sun, their hands rugged with work. 

The men argued theology in words I don't understand. He invited my husband to sit. She showed me pictures of their grandchildren, cooed over the girls, and showed me back to her garden. There she loaded me with parsley, more than I could ever know what to do with. She gave me tomatoes, basil, green onions, and garlic. She explained that if I planted the cloves I would also have garlic plants, and then she said In the springtime I will help you plant a garden of your own

 Come anytime, they said; we're not American. It's an interesting thing when you meet somebody that shares with you like family, especially with only a little more than a zip code in common.


Friday, October 31, 2014

The Time Keeper


It struck me the other day that the bay window in our living room keeps the time almost perfectly. While it's still dark, I watch the neighbor pull his green van out of the driveway. I wash bottles and pacifiers to be ready for the day. When the boy with large glasses gets on his bike for choir practice, it's time for breakfast. The morning passes in a blur of diapers and tummy time, but I know it's noon when Jimmy John's delivers to the house with the big round bushes. Soon enough appears a young woman, thin and covered in tattoos. She walks by with her is a bunch of children in a wagon. We too must go on a walk of our own. The mailman comes, Mama needs more coffee. As a carpool drops some kids home from school, I stop reading stories for it's time to put on dinner. The babies sleep, the green van pulls back in, I know my husband will soon be home.  The day closes with a walked pair of huskies and an older woman having a smoke in a burger king uniform. Finally the window goes silent, it's time to sleep, the day is over. It has nothing left for me, yet beckons us to contentment- for in only a moment the green van will pull out and then pull back in again, and before I know it my girls will be grown. So for now I cherish the baths, the finger puppets, the little shrieks of laughter. The seemingly endless mundane is one of the sweetest gifts I've ever known.

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Babies.





                     Back in the fall we decided it was time to grow our family.
We hoped they would have my eyes and his humor. We even dared to dream that we could have twins.
"Be careful what you wish for", my midwife said.
My husband takes good care of me, and five and a half months later we're growing at the speed of light. 
Our whole world can't wait to meet them. Our family and friends have been so kind and helpful 
(ex. a whole stack of baby books from a friend at school). 





Sunday, July 28, 2013

It Was Puzzling

        For our anniversary my brother-in-law gave us a bag of puzzle pieces.
                                   It was a nice gesture, we like puzzles. 

  

Soon we realized it wasn't just any ordinary puzzle. Some images started to look familiar. 


There were some strange and ambiguous messages.


It even got a little weird.


Then it came together.


                                                A friend is someone


who knows

                    

the song


in your heart

                     

                                                          and can


sing it back


to you


when


you have forgotten


the words.


In conclusion, a picture is worth a thousand words
But a thousand pieces is worth more than I ever imagined.



Sunday, April 21, 2013

Taking Flight


                    Our first year of marriage was all about learning to fly. 
So was our one year anniversary celebration.




Akron to Cleveland
and a 180 around our neighborhood

It's not fair to the rest of the world that I get to be married to Bogdan. He's incredible. This celebration is even more fun than getting engaged; instead of celebrating what may be we are celebrating what is
I love you honey


Thursday, April 4, 2013

Beats and Jams

We think my dad was in a band called "The Greasy Monkeys". He will never confirm or deny this; it's an old family legend. Regardless, my dad was a drummer, and hadn't picked up sticks since his days of glory.

My husband has had his own touch of glory, in a Ukrainian hard rock band called "Lesya."

Recently they put their genius together in a practice room of an old warehouse. This is what they got.




Thursday, December 20, 2012

Our First Christmas

We've never been together on Christmas, and have pondered what it will be like. We tried to plan, but decided that whatever happens, happens. Tonight is the night we celebrate just us, before we go home to Chicago tomorrow. This is the sketch of our evening:

Bogdan gets home from work in a few minutes. We're having Ukrainian take-out for dinner. Nutella crepes are on the stove. We're going to read some of The Christmas Carol, watch the Grinch, and there's a gift waiting for him under our tree; a scrapbook of his life. That's it. I cant wait.

Monday, December 10, 2012

Little Boy Soup

I have a little friend named Tima, who sometimes comes over to play. Today we were stuck inside, because it was raining. We did what I found that little boys do best. We made soup.

We filled up a whole pot of water, one spoonful at a time.
And mixed in all the nondamagables my kitchen had to offer-
corks, lemons, wooden sticks.
Finally we seasoned it with coffee beans, stirring until most of it ended up on the floor.

Today was a wet and wonderful day.

Thursday, October 25, 2012

The Wedding Crashers

That's us. We crashed a wedding.
We had wanted to go dancing our last night on the island. We went for a walk and followed the music. Then we got to the ocean. There were lights and lanterns and beautifully adorned tables. These festivities were set among pools of sharks and sea turtles and sting ray fish. This wedding was breathtaking.
We helped ourselves to some hors d'oeuvores.
And mingled. Like good wedding guests.
We were about to get to the dance floor when we were stopped by some security guards.
"Please leave" they said. So we left. For a while. And returned. We wanted to dance. This time we didn't get as far, and were escorted away.
I dont get it. If somebody crashed my wedding I would be so pleased; I would let them eat cake.

Monday, October 22, 2012

Take Two

We played shuffleboard in the sunset.
Read in the pool for hours.
Floated down the lazy river, as lazy as can be.
Danced in a brick paved street.
Swam with jelly fish in ocean.
We were in the Bahamas, and just returned.
It was what a honeymoon should be.

Monday, September 24, 2012

Lost in Translation

I want Ukrainian people to come to faith, and I don't want my someday-children to think their mama isn't very intelligent. Therefore, I'm learning Ukrainian.

I have had some moments of glory, like at the market when I order "dvi charne buhanki"- two black breads.

I have had some moments not quite so great, like the time I greeted my mother-in-law into my home for the very first time, "sprizdom d'domu"- welcome to my prosthetic leg.

I don't have high hopes of her opinion of my intellect, but "ya natyskayu na"- I press on.





Saturday, September 1, 2012

A Bedtime Conversation

Miriam: Can you pass me a pillow.
Bogdan: Here you go. Do you want to watch a movie?
Miriam: No, I'm pretty tired.
Bogdan: Can I get you some water?
Miriam: No, but I do want coffee in the morning!
Bogdan: OK. Goodnight Sweetie.
Miriam: Goodnight, I love you.

There's nothing interesting about this conversation except for this:
it was all in Ukrainian