Monday, November 3, 2014

The Giving Garden


About six months ago my husband and I moved from an apartment in a historic part of the city to Parma, an ethnically dense town with working families. We live close to church, hoping to be a gospel light to Ukrainians, a people held captive by religious tradition, with no concept of salvation by the cross of Christ. 

Just the other day our family was on a walk. We had gotten root beer from the fruit market, and were pushing the stroller home when Bogdan greeted some neighbors we had never seen before.
Dobriy Den he called out to an older couple. They approached us and we spoke over the fence.
Their faces were worn by the sun, their hands rugged with work. 

The men argued theology in words I don't understand. He invited my husband to sit. She showed me pictures of their grandchildren, cooed over the girls, and showed me back to her garden. There she loaded me with parsley, more than I could ever know what to do with. She gave me tomatoes, basil, green onions, and garlic. She explained that if I planted the cloves I would also have garlic plants, and then she said In the springtime I will help you plant a garden of your own

 Come anytime, they said; we're not American. It's an interesting thing when you meet somebody that shares with you like family, especially with only a little more than a zip code in common.


Friday, October 31, 2014

The Time Keeper


It struck me the other day that the bay window in our living room keeps the time almost perfectly. While it's still dark, I watch the neighbor pull his green van out of the driveway. I wash bottles and pacifiers to be ready for the day. When the boy with large glasses gets on his bike for choir practice, it's time for breakfast. The morning passes in a blur of diapers and tummy time, but I know it's noon when Jimmy John's delivers to the house with the big round bushes. Soon enough appears a young woman, thin and covered in tattoos. She walks by with her is a bunch of children in a wagon. We too must go on a walk of our own. The mailman comes, Mama needs more coffee. As a carpool drops some kids home from school, I stop reading stories for it's time to put on dinner. The babies sleep, the green van pulls back in, I know my husband will soon be home.  The day closes with a walked pair of huskies and an older woman having a smoke in a burger king uniform. Finally the window goes silent, it's time to sleep, the day is over. It has nothing left for me, yet beckons us to contentment- for in only a moment the green van will pull out and then pull back in again, and before I know it my girls will be grown. So for now I cherish the baths, the finger puppets, the little shrieks of laughter. The seemingly endless mundane is one of the sweetest gifts I've ever known.

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Babies.





                     Back in the fall we decided it was time to grow our family.
We hoped they would have my eyes and his humor. We even dared to dream that we could have twins.
"Be careful what you wish for", my midwife said.
My husband takes good care of me, and five and a half months later we're growing at the speed of light. 
Our whole world can't wait to meet them. Our family and friends have been so kind and helpful 
(ex. a whole stack of baby books from a friend at school).